People have many problems of those problems is relationship problems.
Truth is that a lot of individuals out there do not know how to
establish a healthy relationship. They do not know the difference
between being a couple and just being lovers. There is a big difference
between the two. The difference is this. . . A real couple is just that a
couple they would NEVER tell a lie to one an other, they know each
others secrets, and they do almost everything together such as scrub
each others backs in the shower. Now lovers are just fake couples. Its
two people in love with each other but they dont know how to love. They
will lie, cheat and be selfish towards each other.
So here is five tips on how to be more of a couple. . .
1.
Discuss any problems/negativity you see in the relationship. As the
sooner you handle a problem the better. This is a major problem with
women. A women will tell you that she thinks its OK if you go with the
guys to watch the game but when you get home she will be in a bad mood
because you went and had a good time with the guys and left her alone.
Women need to learn to be more confrontational in relationships if you
see your partner doing something wrong let them know right away what is
on your mind. Procrastinating on dealing with problems and not being
able to confront people of wrong doing is a very big weakness and a
reason why many lovers have in common. Also people must learn to 'talk
out' problems. Often when people argue in a relationship they get loud,
yell this is so unnecessary. When you have a dispute just sit town and
talk it of like civilized being. Getting loud only makes matters worse.
2.
Always be honest. Being 100% honest in a relationship should be a moral
everyone has. If you have lied in the past you should let your lover
know if it and try your best never to lie again. Even telling the
smallest lie is so wrong when it comes to your own love. If you can
never be 100% honest you can never be a real couple.
3. Dont be
selfish. There is many individuals out there who are very selfish when
it comes to love. They want there girlfriend to massage there back for
15 minutes but yet they get frustrated when there 15 minutes is up and
it time to massage her back. Being selfish is a very childish trait.
When you do something for your lover you should see its as you were
doing it for yourself thats what a real couple is all about.
4.
Show more affection/be more romantic. This is of the main problems. A
real couple will give each other massages at least once a day, have
candle light dinners, and cuddle each other to sleep. When you do things
such as cuddle and kiss your brain starts to spit out the feel good
chemicals such as dopamine and serotonin this is why you see in cartoons
how a character will kiss another and start to see fireworks. So pay
more attention to each other. . I see people throwing away money at the
massage parlor when they have someone at home who can give them that
blissful feeling. Do a lil research on how to give massages and make it
an everyday thing.
5. Make love/have sex more often. Orgasm Is
literally one of the healthiest things you can do. People who orgasm
often are going to have a healthier immune system, better moods as every
time you orgasm it shoots out the feel good chemicals such as
serotonin, women who orgasm more than your average are going to have
lighter periods, in general you can not be on the top of your game
unless you orgasm frequently especially men as women have naturally
higher levels of serotonin. Also being a swinger is a very positive
thing if you can handle it. What I mean by this is that people get
caught up the the lie that you should only have sexual intercourse with
the one you love. This is hogwash especially for guys, men could just
screw like jackrabbits. Women on the other hand have to feel a
connection with you before they hop into bed. So ladies you need to
understand how us men think and give us some space when it comes to are
sexual desires. A man is not meant to have just have one sex partner. It
could be healthy in a relationship if the women allows the man to sleep
around. As long as he is not neglecting his lover by spending time with
his mistresses. The way men think is that they want to have one main
love and a bunch of women on the side who mean nothing but a piece of
a$! to them. You must take full advantage of the pleasures life has to
offer cause thats what living is all about having fun. But like I said
if you can handle it... most people are childish so they would get
jealous if they saw there love having sex with another. Most people are
not grown-up enough to share there love with someone else when it comes
to sex. They are too insecure and too weak minded to bring outsiders
into the bedroom with them as enjoying sex to the fullest and not
feeling jealous are traits of the wise. As far as love making goes do
some research on "tantric lovemaking" for some real ecstasy.
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