Long distance relationship is usually hard to be kept. Statistics
has shown that more than 70% of distanced couples broke up within 3
years after they got apart. Less than 50% can continue their
relationship when they meet again. Why?
Trust is not there anymore
How long a distance relationship can maintain is actually depends on how deep the couples love one another. When the love is there, the trust is always there. People often say time is a very good tool in erasing your memories and feelings.
This has 2 implications.
The first positive implies that it can help to rub off your sad memories, the other negative implies that it can also erase your happy moments.
When time passes, you might start to forget all the promises and vows made to your lover.
The worse is about to arrive when you find that your lover is not replying your messages or phone calls anymore. You might start to cast doubt on the excuses she gave by claiming that she is busy with her work. There is the part where your long distance relationship starts to crack.
Missing your lover too long
Feeling easy to get numb. You might still think that you love your partner, but by the time you see her again, your feeling mix. This is the negative side of long distance relationship. You thought that you might have hugged your lover and kiss her but you miss her too long, so long that you have practised too many times inside your brain and when you meet her again, you have already get used to all the reactions.
Trust is not there anymore
How long a distance relationship can maintain is actually depends on how deep the couples love one another. When the love is there, the trust is always there. People often say time is a very good tool in erasing your memories and feelings.
This has 2 implications.
The first positive implies that it can help to rub off your sad memories, the other negative implies that it can also erase your happy moments.
When time passes, you might start to forget all the promises and vows made to your lover.
The worse is about to arrive when you find that your lover is not replying your messages or phone calls anymore. You might start to cast doubt on the excuses she gave by claiming that she is busy with her work. There is the part where your long distance relationship starts to crack.
Missing your lover too long
Feeling easy to get numb. You might still think that you love your partner, but by the time you see her again, your feeling mix. This is the negative side of long distance relationship. You thought that you might have hugged your lover and kiss her but you miss her too long, so long that you have practised too many times inside your brain and when you meet her again, you have already get used to all the reactions.
