Sadly that's a phrase many women find themselves saying after a
few years of marriage. The man you agreed to marry may have transformed
himself into someone that's barely recognizable to you. When the
stresses of raising children, tending to finances and chasing a career
take their toll on a man, he can slowly become someone you just don't
love anymore. It's not uncommon for a woman to love her husband but to
not feel in love with him. Although it's a subtle difference, when
you're living day in and day out with someone you're not in love with,
it's problematic. If you're not ready to throw in the towel on the
relationship, there's some much needed help for you. You can actually
fall back in love with the man you married if you're determined and have
an open heart and mind.
If you start feeling as though you're not in love with your spouse anymore you need to take time to evaluate when you believe your feelings started to change for him. It may be hard to pinpoint the exact moment when you fell out of love but there were likely some episodes along the way that contributed to it. If you two have been arguing over something and have yet to iron out your differences that can change how you feel about him. Consider what conflicts you two are facing and then work with your spouse to find a resolution.
Quite often a woman will begin to feel disconnected emotionally from her husband because he neglects her. He doesn't bring her flowers on her birthday or Valentine's Day anymore, he may stop telling her she's beautiful and he may also pull back when it comes to intimacy. If these scenarios sound familiar, you actually can do quite a bit to remedy the situation. You may have fallen out of love with your husband because subconsciously you feel that he's fallen out of love with you. If that's the case, you need to start treating him the way you did when you two first met. This may seem like an illogical and unnecessary exercise, but it can literally change the entire dynamic of your marriage. Dote on your husband again, compliment him, make him feel special and adored. If you do this you may just find that your feelings will start to change as he begins to treat you in the same special way.
If you start feeling as though you're not in love with your spouse anymore you need to take time to evaluate when you believe your feelings started to change for him. It may be hard to pinpoint the exact moment when you fell out of love but there were likely some episodes along the way that contributed to it. If you two have been arguing over something and have yet to iron out your differences that can change how you feel about him. Consider what conflicts you two are facing and then work with your spouse to find a resolution.
Quite often a woman will begin to feel disconnected emotionally from her husband because he neglects her. He doesn't bring her flowers on her birthday or Valentine's Day anymore, he may stop telling her she's beautiful and he may also pull back when it comes to intimacy. If these scenarios sound familiar, you actually can do quite a bit to remedy the situation. You may have fallen out of love with your husband because subconsciously you feel that he's fallen out of love with you. If that's the case, you need to start treating him the way you did when you two first met. This may seem like an illogical and unnecessary exercise, but it can literally change the entire dynamic of your marriage. Dote on your husband again, compliment him, make him feel special and adored. If you do this you may just find that your feelings will start to change as he begins to treat you in the same special way.
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