You don't just lose the feelings that you had for your ex
girlfriend when the relationship comes to an end, do you? No, most of
the time, those feelings will remain and sometimes it even seems like
they grow a little after the break up as you find yourself missing her
and thinking about her all of the time. If you feel like you are still
in love with your ex girlfriend and you want to be able to tell her
that, you might be wondering what the best way to do that is. However,
there is something that you should know and that is - it's probably NOT a
good idea to tell her that you still love her if you want to be able to
get her back. At least, not yet.
See, if you tell your ex girlfriend that you love her when she doesn't feel the same way, it's not really going to do much to help you get her back. In fact, knowing that you feel that way may make her feel like she wants to avoid you, as she might not want to give you the wrong idea. However, if you are able to make her feel like she is starting to feel the same way and THEN you tell her that you still love her, that can end up having the impact on her that you want and that can help you to get back together with her.
IT'S MORE IMPORTANT TO MAKE HER FEEL ATTRACTED TO YOU AGAIN...
When you feel like you still love your ex girlfriend, the only thing that you want to do is just let it out and tell her the way that you feel. You might even imagine that it would play out kind of like a movie and she would turn to you and tell you that she has been secretly feeling the same way and then the two of you would embrace and you'd be back together. The reality is always different from that kind of a fantasy. What you NEED to do is to work on making her feel attracted to you again.
Until she feels like she is really into you again, telling her that you are in love with her is going to prove to be the WRONG move. You don't want to make any wrong moves, so you need to suppress that urge to declare your love until the time is RIGHT. When the time is right and she is feeling like she is starting to fall in love with you again, then you'll be able to say those three words to her and most likely she will be HAPPY to hear you say that and she might even tell you that she does feel the same way.
See, if you tell your ex girlfriend that you love her when she doesn't feel the same way, it's not really going to do much to help you get her back. In fact, knowing that you feel that way may make her feel like she wants to avoid you, as she might not want to give you the wrong idea. However, if you are able to make her feel like she is starting to feel the same way and THEN you tell her that you still love her, that can end up having the impact on her that you want and that can help you to get back together with her.
IT'S MORE IMPORTANT TO MAKE HER FEEL ATTRACTED TO YOU AGAIN...
When you feel like you still love your ex girlfriend, the only thing that you want to do is just let it out and tell her the way that you feel. You might even imagine that it would play out kind of like a movie and she would turn to you and tell you that she has been secretly feeling the same way and then the two of you would embrace and you'd be back together. The reality is always different from that kind of a fantasy. What you NEED to do is to work on making her feel attracted to you again.
Until she feels like she is really into you again, telling her that you are in love with her is going to prove to be the WRONG move. You don't want to make any wrong moves, so you need to suppress that urge to declare your love until the time is RIGHT. When the time is right and she is feeling like she is starting to fall in love with you again, then you'll be able to say those three words to her and most likely she will be HAPPY to hear you say that and she might even tell you that she does feel the same way.
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