I get shit done in person, not over text messages.
Relying on clever texting as your main source of attraction is doomed to fail. If the girl isn't down to pound from the jump, no amount of digital trickery is going to get her horned up for you. This will be readily apparent when you invite her out for drinks and receive a stock blow-off in return. "Oh, I'd love to go out with you, but my second cousin just got hit by two cars and I have to spoon feed him in the hospital."
Eastern girls are glued to their phones much like every other first world female. Line, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram -- it's all just "Male Validation for iOS" to them if they're not serious about getting on your dong. They also do not have pastimes other than dieting and shopping, so I assume that they do not mind loading up their considerable idle time with text exchanges that go nowhere.
I understand that some lotharios like to stay in semi-constant contact with their stable of lovers, but that is a completely different situation from chatting with a girl whom you haven't slept with yet. Unless she's sending you nudes, what's the point? Chances are any girl who continues to chat with you despite always being "busy" when you ask her out is just milking you for validation. If you enjoy idle chit chat, then tap away at your iPhone to your heart's content. Just remember that the time you spend exchanging meaningless bits and bytes could be spent doing something more fulfilling.
If texting/emailing/LINE chatting is your only available means of connecting with a female, that is a different story. Nonetheless, I have yet to discover an on the internet dating scheme in Japan that does not extremely favor white/black people (I'm Asian), so I will not discuss such interaction. I will state that it's still possibly a great idea to obtain the woman off her phone and into an izakaya with you quicker as opposed to later on.
Relying on clever texting as your main source of attraction is doomed to fail. If the girl isn't down to pound from the jump, no amount of digital trickery is going to get her horned up for you. This will be readily apparent when you invite her out for drinks and receive a stock blow-off in return. "Oh, I'd love to go out with you, but my second cousin just got hit by two cars and I have to spoon feed him in the hospital."
Eastern girls are glued to their phones much like every other first world female. Line, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram -- it's all just "Male Validation for iOS" to them if they're not serious about getting on your dong. They also do not have pastimes other than dieting and shopping, so I assume that they do not mind loading up their considerable idle time with text exchanges that go nowhere.
I understand that some lotharios like to stay in semi-constant contact with their stable of lovers, but that is a completely different situation from chatting with a girl whom you haven't slept with yet. Unless she's sending you nudes, what's the point? Chances are any girl who continues to chat with you despite always being "busy" when you ask her out is just milking you for validation. If you enjoy idle chit chat, then tap away at your iPhone to your heart's content. Just remember that the time you spend exchanging meaningless bits and bytes could be spent doing something more fulfilling.
If texting/emailing/LINE chatting is your only available means of connecting with a female, that is a different story. Nonetheless, I have yet to discover an on the internet dating scheme in Japan that does not extremely favor white/black people (I'm Asian), so I will not discuss such interaction. I will state that it's still possibly a great idea to obtain the woman off her phone and into an izakaya with you quicker as opposed to later on.
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Japanese girls can be a mystery. They certainly were to me, and I'm Japanese-American. Fortunately, I figured out how to lead a life of romantic abundance in the land of the rising sun. Learn everything I wish I'd known about Japanese girls back when I was a college graduate on my blog: http://redsunblue.com.
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